Good Questions to Ask a Guy to Know Him Better

Posted by Grace under General Info on November 25, 2015

There are good questions to ask a guy during the date if you want to know the guy better. One good question to ask him is about his “job”.

Girls are dreaming to meet their knight in shining armor. They want to know a guy if he is the real prince or he is another “heartbreaking” guy. You, as a girl, will only know the real personality of a guy by asking several questions. Come on ladies, guys will not tell you everything unless you ask a question.


Of course, there are sensitive guys who will not answer all your questions. And there are guys who are willing to reveal all his secrets to a girl. A guy will only tell the truth about who he is to a girl he trust.

So, if you want to know him better, might be your crush, your boyfriend, your suitor or any guy you like ask him a question. But of course, be careful in selecting questions to ask to a guy.

These 13 good questions to ask a guy are divided into several aspects like family, career, hobbies and life’s plan and goal. Getting to know each other questions;

Good Questions to Ask a Guy

A simple “what’s your name?” question sounds not a smart question. You can start saying your name and ask; “you are..”. Confident guy will response by telling his name after you tell yours.

Make the conversation hot, funny, cool and interesting. Guys don’t love to talk to a girl who is boring. After you know his name, you can start asking question about the place where you are at right now. If you are in a bar, ask him about the bar and if he is always visiting the bar.

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Meaningful & Good Questions to Ask a Guy

There are meaningful questions you can ask a guy to know him better. If you want to know about his family background, you can start asking about her parents, brother and sister. Do not forget to response by telling your own.

It is also a good question if you will ask him about what he is doing for a living. What is his profession? Did he enjoy his job? Or did he had a plan to change career?

Aside from family background and career, you can also ask him about the things he enjoyed most. Hey girls, be careful in asking about this question. And be prepared if the guy will tell you the things he always enjoyed is “sex”. Well, sex should not be the first thing to discuss and as long as you can avoid conversation about sex. Guys love to talk about it. Unless he’s a gay, he will never talk about sex in front of a girl.

You can ask him, what did he do during weekends or when he has a free time? What is his favorite sport? Is he an athlete?

As a guide, here are the questions to ask;

  • If there is any place in the world that you could go, where would it be and why?
  • What is your favorite sport to watch/play?
  • If we were dating, how would you celebrate our first one year anniversary?


Life’s Goal: Good Questions to Ask a Guy

Other good question to ask a guy is about his life’s plan and goal. How can you like a guy without ambition? If the guy has a plan to become financially stable, to run his own business and to have his own family after few years, then this guy is worth your time. So, how can you ask about his plan and goal?

Simple, just ask him “do you have a plan to start your own business” or will you stay working for your employee for a lifetime? Tell him that you are interested in investing money and you will have a clue if he is also interested to achieve financial freedom.

As a guide, I found some good questions about personal finance. Things to ask about “money”. (1)

  • What is your biggest regret in life so far?
  • If money and career were no object, where in the world would you choose to live?
  • If you inherited or won a million dollars, what would you do with it?


Are these questions makes sense? Yes! Girls, don’t waste your time spending it in a guy who don’t know what he really wants. Don’t spend your time to a guy who has no plans, goals and ambition.

Do you know any other good questions to ask a guy to know him well? What are the common questions you usually ask to a guy for the first time?

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