How to Know if He Loves You? (5 Ways to Test Him)
How to know if he loves you? How to understand if your boyfriend loves you or not? In this relationship guide, the word he is addressing to every girls boyfriend or every wife’s husband. If you want to know if he loves you or not, read the ways on how to understand your BF/Husband feelings and actions.
Love is unconditional. You will only know that he loves you if he is willing to do anything to make you happy and proud. He is not expecting any return in favor. His affection last forever, not lost forever! Can you differentiate a loving BF/Husband to a not loving BF/Husband?
If you can differentiate them, then, knowing him if he truly loves you or not is very easy. I will give you an example, a good and loving man will love a woman if he send flowers to every special occasion like birthday, valentine’s day and Christmas day. He has a very strong feelings to you. But not all men are showy. Some men don’t show their love by giving material things. They want to show their love through honesty, loyalty and sincerity.
How to Know if He Loves You? (5 Ways to Test Him)
Follow these step by step procedures to get informed if he loves you or not. You will easily find out if he loves you by doing these suggested ideas;
- Tell him “you love him”. If he don’t response and even don’t appreciate what you said, that means he have no longer in love with you.
- Ask him a favor and know he is interested. Ask him to visit your parents, to go to the church, or ask for a lunch, dinner or coffee. If he is not interested, that means he is not interested to be acquainted with you. If he don’t want to be acquainted with you, that means the feelings (the love) has gone.
- You can easily know if he loves you by means of saying goodbye. A good guy will ask you why. Test his love. You can tell him goodbye. Play with him. If he don’t want to break up with you, that means he don’t want to lose your love. He don’t want to lose you.
- Cut the communication. If he really loves you, he will find a way to get connected with you. If he’s not doing something, that means, his love to you is not deep. Remember, love can be tested by time. You will never know when you’re not around in a week, in a second week he has found new one.
- Use other people to test him. Maybe a friend who is willing to flirt him. You will become proud of him if he tells your friend that he loves you so much.
How to Know if He Loves You? (Other Tips)
I asked some of my friends. I asked them one by one, how to know if he loves you or not. We’re talking about our BFs and husbands. And these are their responses;
Image Credit: 206/365 – Faceless Bunny and Kitty on Creative Commons 2.0 via Flickr- He loves you if he is willing to sacrifice for you. If he is willing to spend more quality time with you.
- He really loves you if he is always wanted to be with you.
- He really loves you if he forget the important and special dates.
- He really loves you if he is not having a crush on other girls.
- He really loves you if he don’t prioritize sex in your relationship.
- He really loves you if he is not after your looks or figures. He is wiling to be with you whether you put a make up on your face or not.
- He really loves you if his respect to you is higher than the respect to his self. The word is “respect”.
- He really loves you even in a long distance relationship.
What about you? What is your way of testing your BF/Husband to know if he loves you or not? I hope you learned today. Don’t test your BF/Husband. Stop making expectations to him if you want to have a strong relationship with him. Guys love challenges but not in a way they feel they are not trusted!